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No Added Sugar (2014)

The original idea for the wedding scene was to create a section in the performance that showed how couples who are planning to get married can be forced into big extravagant weddings by friends and family. Some couples set out to get married in a small venue with just their nearest and dearest there, but quite often it seems the people closest to them get involved and persuade them otherwise. The initial aim of the scene was to remind the audience, that even though fancy weddings can be beautiful, underneath all that what really matters is that two people love each other enough to promise themselves to one another for the rest of their lives. Firstly we talked about how planning all the different things that need to be organised in a wedding can be like a military mission. This led to many different ideas for a scene. We wanted to create a live wedding plan on stage for the audience to see, we hoped we could write it in a way where the audience could see a couple be cajoled into this wedding by us. The idea that followed was that we wanted a main ‘military type’ who would be in charge of giving out different jobs to each actor on stage, one of our first ideas was to place the live feed onto a map which would show the seating plan and be ready for the audience to see. With this idea in mind, I began to write the scene… we made a list of the most important factors of a wedding this included…

The Date.

The Venue.

The catering.

The dress.

The Music.

The Idea finally progressed into a scene that required audience participation. We thought there was no better way to show the audience how a wedding can manipulated then using two audience members who had never met before and planning their wedding! When writing the scene, I at first wrote it in a military style, having each actor with a different role within the wedding an example of this is….

“This is Sam… Wires, communications. She can write invitations like you’ve never seen. Calligraphy that’ll make you weep openly. She’ll be in charge of fonts and napkin folding.”

Throughout the process of devising our show, one of our main influences has been ‘Filter Theatre’. From the start we always aimed for our piece to have a relaxed atmosphere which gave the feel of organised chaos. Filters work also has this feel… “Although diminishing the audience, the timing of the event was actually crucial to the success of Filter’s performance; the informal atmosphere aimed for was enthusiastically embraced by an audience who had mostly just arrived from the pub. The production represented, in many ways, the RSC’s ‘‘night off’’, with a party feel amongst many sections of the auditorium” (Kirwan, 2009). Although lots of our performance showed similarities with Filter Theatre, I feel the main scene which we took real inspiration from them would have to be the wedding scene. In their rendition of ‘Twelfth Night’ Filter Theatre used lots of different audience participation the first time they use it in the show is when “Viola engaged with the audience directly at the start, making them complicit in her plan by borrowing a hoodie and baseball cap from a boy in the stalls, before completing her disguise by sticking a pair of socks into her pants” (Kirwan, 2009). This act proved extremely amusing, an effect we hope can be achieved in our scene. The scene that we took the most inspiration from was the party scene, which used audience participation to create an ‘spontaneous party’ this was all set around the song “What is love?” it began with an onstage whisper of the song, and built up until it was being repeated and sang louder and louder the onstage actors then began to involve the audience as ‘Sir Andrew’ who “wore a Velcro cap with sticky balls attached to it”(Kirwan, 2009). He asked the audience to throw the balls onto the stage, sometimes missing it but congratulating them when they had succeeded. The party then began to build up when the band joined in and the stage manager emerged with pizza boxes which were given out to audience members. When watching this scene I remember feeling as if I was apart of the action from start to end. This style is what we wish to create with the wedding scene, and I feel having two audience members on stage will help to achieve this.

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Works Cited

Kirwan, P (2009), ‘Review of Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night (directed by Sean Holmes for Filter Theatre) at the Courtyard Theatre, Stratford-upon-Avon, November 2008′, Shakespeare (1745-0918), 5, 1, pp. 114-117.

Kirwan, p (2013) Twelth Night at the curve theatre. [online] Exeunt. Available from: http://exeuntmagazine.com/reviews/twelfth-night-4/ [Accessed 30 April 2014]

No Added Sugar (2014)

Song Writing: The reasons to love me and reasons to stay away.

Towards the beginning of our rehearsal process, when we were collecting writing material, we set ourselves the challenge of writing a list each. The list was to be split into two sections, one being reasons why someone should love you and one being why someone should stay away. We shared these lists with each other in a rehearsal and all picked the lines and sections which we wanted to make into a script. After some deliberation, we then decided that the lists could be made into a song. As I have had some experience song writing before, I nominated myself to be the writer and I compiled the lists together and wrote a melody.

I was inspired by the kind of songs that feature in stand up comedy and I wanted to portray the same clever style. I looked particularly at the work of Tim Minchin.

Once the song was finished I worked with the musical directors Gabby and Jozey to put together the accompaniment and then it was decided that Jozey will play her ukulele in the performance and Lauren will sing the song the song with me. We have allocated the sections of the song in terms of which lines refer more to which singer.

The song:

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Work Cited:

Tim Minchin (2010) You grew on me [online video] Available from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=frNpdG4F9mw [Accessed 10 April  2014].

“Love is… Lovely, isn’t it?”

Below are the full sound recordings of the interviews I conducted. I asked a few questions about love and relationships. Beneath the sound recordings are some moments I have highlighted, and quotations that stood out to us as material for the piece.

 

 

Interview with a single man in his mid-twenties:

What kind of tough conversations have you had in your relationships?

“Making things official… without officially talking about them…”

 

Any landmark moments?

“…The size of the moment, the grandeur of it is on the situation, or the circumstance of how the two came together.”

 

What do you think of love?

“Love is lovely isn’t it?” “What is the borderline moment between when you really care, and really like someone… When does that become love?”

 

Do you believe in ‘love at first sight’?

“No no no, I know there is no such thing as ‘love at forst sight’, that is lust, that is simply love. It’s there, in the name, ‘sight’. Because when you see someone, it’s there, like boom, “you are fit mate”. Like, then they could open their mouth and it’d be like, the most hideous voice. Yeah, it would be the worst thing in the world.”

 

How long should you know someone before you say ‘I love you’?

“Because when you say ‘I love you’, it suddenly means something. I can only compare it to… when people throw around the term ‘best friend’… As soon as you put the label of ‘bets friend’ on someone, that suddenly makes them the one, they’re accountable and that is scary because you depend on someone, much like… well, it’s scary cos they could let you down… I think that’s why saying ‘I love you’ would be terrifying, because as soon as you’ve said it, you can’t take that back, and because… because it’s a display of emotion, and how you feel summed up in like three little words… You wanna run away from it, like if you don’t say it, you don’t put it on someone, they can’t let you down, and then like, its easier to accept someone’s faults when you haven’t put that on someone, put them in that position, on that pedestal. You know, “you’re the one I love, don’t fuck it up!” and “you’re my best friend, don’t fuck it up!” Same thing, isn’t it.”

 

Do you have any ground rules in your relationships?

“Just… be honest.”

 

Interview with a young couple:

What kind of tough conversations have you had in your relationships?

Girlfriend: I actually can’t remember any tough conversations.

Boyfriend: It’s probably like… what shall we have for dinner innit?

Girlfriend: Ha, yeah… ‘We should probably keep this secret for a bit because we’re flat mates.’ Oh and he asked me if Jennifer Anniston could go on his [bucket] list.

 

Any landmark moments?

Me: So you’re first anniversary, was that really special?

 

Silence… Laughter.

 

Me: It’s a voice recording, shaking you’re head isn’t useful!

Girlfriend: Well I think the first time he said ‘I love you’ was nice.

 

What do you think of love?

Boyfriend: It’s just, alright, innit.

Girlfriend: I’d say it was more than alright! I think he’s being a bit, harsh on Love there. I mean, I’d say it’s pretty sweet… pretty sweet… (Laughter).

 

How long should you wait before you say ‘I love you’?

Girlfriend: If you feel like you do, then why not just say it?

Boyfriend: I said it first… I’m a good boy.

Girlfriend: And it was really nice, cos it was really… of the cuff.

Gestes de la Romance…

Because everything is more romantic in French.

 

Romantic gestures. Big, small, surprising, embarrassing, adorable or sexy – these gestures of love keep our relationships alive. They feed, what is often called, ‘the spark’.

Ask anyone about this subject and you usually hear: “no… we’re/he’s/she’s just not that romantic really!” Of course, we could all be overlooking the tiniest of details in our relationships: That morning cup of tea, picking you up when it’s raining. And why are we oblivious to these charming acts of love? Because films, books and television seem to shroud our honest lives with some grand idea that the only way you can keep a relationship going is to hijack a hot air balloon and whisk them off to Barbados, where you’re greeted by Sonny Rollins, who plays a saxophone solo as you have a walk along the beach… or something similar. I suppose we should not be totally cynical about it though, these films are not reality by any means, but I think it keeps the hopeless romantic topped up in all of us. For example, the brilliant scene in ’10 Things I Hate About You’, where Patrick sings to Kat on the school field:

In light of this, my quest was to find real stories that are near enough film worthy. The criteria included: gestures of love, romantic surprises, or getting together against the odds. These are some of the true stories that came through…

“My Nan moved from Italy when she was about 24, with 20 other Italian girls. They worked in a factory or something and lodged with English families. She lived with my Grandad’s family (he was away in the army at the time) and another Italian friend. The Italian friend didn’t get on with the family and eventually she left wanting my Nan to go with her but she didn’t. My Grandad’s mum threw a birthday party for my Nan, and that night my Grandad came home. He asked her out on a date, they fell in love! When their children were about 18 months/2 years old my Nan went to Italy for 3 months to see family. My Grandad had to stay and work but missed them so went out on Christmas day without them knowing and suprised my Nan.”

“My friend Amy’s boyfriend Craig turned up on her doorstep, having spent £70 on a taxi to get to her house, with a new dress and a table for dinner booked (think he definitely got head that night).”

“My Grandma and Grandad got together because my grandma was a librarian at the library by Grandad studied at. They talked regularly, and eventually he asked her if she wanted to go out. She politely declined, but he tried again. After several attempts he waited for her after work one day with a bunch of flowers and after that she agreed and they went on a date!”

“My mum was Sikh and therefore was expected to have an arranged marriage. She got a job and started working in the summer holidays. My dad was a security guard who worked close by (he is English), my mum thought he was nice but had never looked at boys in that way before. My dad kept asking for a date, however she explained that she wasn’t allowed to date. My dad was persistent and in the end they had a secret meeting, my mum’s dad dropped her at work but she got on a train to London and made sure she was back on time for work finishing. My mum and dad only ever had one date and one kiss and on that basis my mum changed everything she had known, they started planning on how and when to escape together. My mum packed a bag and left a note to say she was leaving. Her family found out where she was and after a tough two weeks she felt too guilty and agreed to stay with a family’s friend. It was then she realised it was my dad she wanted to be with, but the only way she could be sure was to leave him to find that out. They arranged to move up North and stay with my dad’s uncle. They came up here with a carrier bag of clothes and made their life together. My mum tried to win her family’s love back, it took around 7 or 8 years but eventually it happened. 25 years on they are still together happily married with two children.”

In terms of performance we were inspired by these beautiful and bold stories. However, these are exceptional cases that really are film worthy. But they are few and far between. It inspired us to really consider the small everyday gestures versus the grand. The cups of tea versus the public singing. Therefore, we are starting to think about how to embed the little details into one or more of the scenes, most likely in some of the more serious aspects to the piece. As a sort of experiment we are also planning a grand romantic gesture. It is in the pipeline and will remain a surprise until the night (and will be largely improvised on my part)! This contrast will hopefully highlight the realities of our relationships and how we crave the grand romantic gesture and are possibly neglectful of the little details. But as I said, this is an experiment!

 

 

 

 

Hope Cove and the big “I do!”

As part of our devising process, each member of the company is researching into different milestones in a relationship which may be used in the performance. For the structure of the piece, we have discussed using a timeline of some sort that plots the generic events that occur in an average relationship (first kisses, meeting parents etc). These events will then be explored individually through a mixture of real accounts from the public, our own experiences and the heightened portrayals that popular films/songs/TV use. I am delving into the muddy waters of marriage; a foreign territory for me which means relying on my own experience is not an option.

In films and TV, marriage and weddings are often overly romanticised or unrealistically dramatic. What springs to mind instantly is the classic soap opera nearly-wedding where just before the couple say ‘I do’, something terrible happens that disrupts the ceremony. This more unrealistic view of engagement could be something we explore, however I have already started talking to real couples  who will be getting married later this year. Their responses give an honest but heart-warming account of what this life event is like. From the interviews, I have picked out a few points of interest that could be used in the performance. The proposal is something that I think we can definitely play with and using details of real proposals we could create a very uplifting (but genuine and not sugar coated!) scene. Below is a picture of the location of one proposal that was revealed in an interview which we may explore in rehearsals:

the location of one interviewees proposal
the location of one interviewees proposal

First dance songs could be a useful and interesting way to connect our use of live music to this section. That would also create a potential opportunity to have a more physical scene, as currently we have a lot of static, text based moments. It would also be interesting to link some of the stories that we find together. Here is a short list of possible songs that we could use for this section:

  • ‘Don’t Marry Her’- Deep South
  • ‘Love and Marriage’- Frank Sinatra
  • ‘Marry You’- Bruno Mars
  • ‘Going to the chapel of love’- Dixie Cups
  • ‘Paradise By The Dashboard Light’- Meatloaf